Yes, you can use tampons before you've had sex. They don't take away your virginity: that word is about sex, and a tampon has nothing to do with sex. Lots of people have heard this scare story, usually from a friend, an aunt or a grandma.
What is the hymen, really?
The hymen is a thin, soft piece of tissue at the opening of the vagina. Almost everyone's has an opening, and that's where period blood comes out. Its shape varies, for example a ring or a crescent, and the tissue stretches.
Can a tampon “break” the hymen?
A tampon can stretch it a little and, less often, cause a small tear, just like sport or cycling can. Over time the tissue thins anyway, from everyday life. None of this makes anyone “not a virgin”.
How do I put in my first tampon?
Pick the slimmest tampon you can find, ideally with an applicator and a rounded tip. Try on a day when your flow is heavier, because it slides in more easily. Wash your hands, look at the diagram in the leaflet and take your time.
When a tampon is in properly, you can't feel it. If you can feel it or it's uncomfortable, it isn't in far enough or it's at an awkward angle: take it out and use a new one. It may feel strange the first few times, but it shouldn't hurt.
Can a tampon get lost inside me?
No. The cervix, at the top of the vagina, is far too small for a tampon to pass through. If the string has disappeared, wash your hands, squat and bear down as if you were on the toilet: the tampon moves lower. Pull it out with one or two fingers, and never use tweezers or other objects.
Common questions
Can I pee with a tampon in?
Yes. Pee comes out of a different opening, and the tampon sits in the vagina. If the string gets wet, you can pat it dry or change the tampon while you're there.
How long can I leave a tampon in?
Change it every 4–8 hours and never leave it in for more than 8. If one tampon easily lasts all 8 hours, switch to a lower absorbency. And only use tampons during your period.
Is it true tampons contain metals?
Tiny amounts of metals can be found in both regular and organic tampons, as in many everyday materials. The FDA looked into it with a review and a separate study, and found that the amount released during use is too small to cause harm.
In short
- Tampons have nothing to do with your “first time”
- Start with the slimmest one, on a heavier day
- Change every 4–8 hours, never longer than 8
Source: FDA: The facts on tampons and tampon safety
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